Things Women Find Irritating in Men. Part 1
If one could hear what women are discussing at the dinner, at a café, meeting one another than it would be clear that their beloved theme is men. In most cases such talks would end up with a sad conclusion that at our times it is unbelievable difficult to find a worthy man, men are weak, mean are milksops and so forth. Finally, ladies start to enumerate the traits they find most irritating about men.
Indeed ladies are so punctilious, that some of them have a special list of the strains they loathe in men. We could have never thought about it. Take it for granted that the majority of men will die and never learn about it… Let’s hope when we tell you that you will treat the opposite sex a bit different and that will help you to adjust to different types of ladies more flexibly.
Let’s talk about friendship and romantic appeal. For a woman friendship and romance are two absolutely different things. Friendship can turn into the romantic affairs but that happens extremely seldom. While most of men would not mind making love to their female friends, women on the opposite would rarely consider doing that with their male friends. What is that trick behind it? Why is it so difficult to advance to the level of relations where a lady could consider you as someone more than just a friend? This is the question we tried to explore…
Everything, as usual, is based on the feelings of the woman. In particular on a combination of emotional and physical emotional experiences. And that could hardly be explained by the common logic laws. She could have used logic to make a rational decision deciding if it is he type a man or not. We little logic is applied in our case because women are only using their feeling to deliver a decision towards a guy.
If she feels a guy irritates her than her logic decision will be: I do not want that guy. But if she is excited about you and her feelings are “hot” than her logic decision will be: He is interesting and attractive and he is the person I shall hold on to. Her logic is like feel – think – act. Feeling comes first, followed by the thought and ending up in the action.
Now the question is what men are actually doing to win a lady they like.
Take a minute and think about it. Make the list. Stop reading and restart when you have accomplished the list. Now have a look at the list: Bet most of the point would be immensely generic by their nature like: Give her flowers, Phone her more frequently, Take her to the cafes. All these doings are only demonstrating your interest in a woman but not arouse emotional and physical feelings that actually tell the woman: He is the guy I want to be with!