How To Win A Lady?
It is well known that women have intuition – a strange something that helps them to find solutions in very complicated situations. Why is it possible? What is intuition?
Some say that this is experience and it helps women to resolve some quite difficult issues. It goes due to their communication. Everyone knows that all women love to chat. They do it constantly and with passion i.e. they talk mainly about men and about interrelations. That is why the got experience in it quite easily and got lots of information as well.
Second reason why they are a bit better in social communication then most of men is that they are all natural born body language interpreters. It is quite easy for most of them to see these signals and translate them i.e. get to know you are lying or not. That is why women can guess better and get the idea of the conversation in seconds just looking at the opponent i.e. having the sense of his emotions.
Lots of them use these senses to find a person they like. Usually they decide only according to their intuition but not according to the words or deeds i.e. sometimes it is quite difficult to understand women and get reasons of their actions.
Some specialists say that it is very important for a man to feel self confident and show inner strength while talking to a woman. It is clearly seen for most of them and influences their decisions. The worst situation for a man is when he expresses hunger for woman’s attention and insecurity: the situation when he feels himself non confident and weak, he seeks for the support and respect, tries to pray the role of a strong one. Unfortunately most of women see such playing and understand why it is going on.
That is why it is so important for men to be ready and to know body language signs in order to act correctly. Here are some of the typical situations that one can be aware of.
A. When with a woman you should not express your shyness as most of them see it how insecurity and weakness. You are to be yourself, relax and let her feel comfort.
B. Do not be rude with a woman. Do not blame her or her ex friends. This is a typical sign of man’s insecurity.
C. If you can be easily driven by your emotions are considered to be unreliable by women. They believe that those who can control themselves are more secure.
D. You are to make your own decisions and to be responsible for them. That is the typical sign of being reliable and secure for a woman. Do not ask friends to help you to make a decision. You are to do it yourself.
E. Be confident and feel secure! Do not aim to have her attention. Do not follow her everywhere. You are to show your strength. If you have them she will understand it herself.
F. Within the discussion do to use only Yes or No. That will show your weakness. Do not be shy. Feel comfortable and show your real emotions. You are to talk freely and with no inner strains. Communication is very important and if you have problems – you are to work on it.